genuine question: when someone says “i eat healthy,” do you always inject your own meaning of “i don’t use drugs or smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do anything else ‘unhealthy’” ?

in other words, to you “i eat healthy” = “i don’t do anything unhealthy”?

because that’s what you just did

Being totally wrecked in your 40s or even earlier is not good.

i concur: in my 40s, totally wrecked. i still consider myself extremely lucky. no ragrets

i tried monjaro and garuda, seem to have had the best luck so far with pop_os out of the box. running an AMD ryzen 7 9800x3d and RTX 5070-- other distros apparently hated these things

lol i love how the abstract cites a paper from 1942

look: if you’re disgusted by genitals, i’m sorry to hear that, and i’m not judging you.

but don’t sit there and try to tell me everyone, or even “most people” feels that way.

i can’t speak for goofy looking dicks, but vulvas are extremely attractive; i dunno wtf you, or your 1942 paper referencing “study” are talking about.

again–i’m not judging. but i suggest you post to asklemmy (or literally any other forum), and ask: “are female genitalia no fun to look at/unattractive/weird/whatever tf else” and consider that maybe whatever problem you have with vaginas might not be a baked in instinctual thing that everyone has

develop completely separate processing systems to account for the fact that genitals look weird. Their appearances are so strange that you’d rather avoid them

wat