• FuyuhikoDate@feddit.org
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    7 hours ago

    I have friends who tell me that every time and I have troubles to say that i want something without feeling shitty so tried a loophole for both our brains and phrase sentences like:

    “If you like you can do that AND would make me very happy on the way, or you stay at home and I will be very happy for you! Either way I am happy!”

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      7 hours ago

      I’ll be honest, that sounds manipulative. Maybe it’s different in the tone that’s lost in the text format.

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        3 hours ago

        I really really try not to be manipulative and also writing in English makes it harder for me 😅

        I already tried to write like 5 times because I thought the same.