• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    there are some coerciveness in the fact that monogamy is the expected relationship, enforced by religions, families, and states.

    and as a normarive thing, it should at least bw questioned, even if you agree with it.

    like murder is bad, that is a normarive statement enforced by religions and states. but questining it, I have to agree, murder IS bad. and guess what. if you disagree with me, (this is a conversation not a debate but indulge me the following statement) I’ll call it a win if you just question it, even if you don’t change your mind.

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      4 hours ago

      But if two people agree they want to be monogamous with each other because that is what they want, nothing to do with society, then it’s not unethical.

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        3 hours ago

        I don’t 100% agree, but as long as it is questioned rather than passively adopted as normarive standards then that’s good.