• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Not sure how to continue.

    If the only consequences of cheating is your emotions and the damages comes from your reaction (don’t necessarily mean violent, I mean like breaking up) then the act itself might not be the bad thing but the way you react.

    Life is too short to deny ourself relationships that bring us joy, and how cruel is to expect that from anyone, especially not those whom we love.

    • Techno-rat@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 day ago

      I disagree. I want my partner to respect my feelings, and to care about not hurting my feelings. I want that because i do the same, respect their feelings and care about not hurting theirs

      To me, it is cruel to not care about the feelings of other people. I guess we differ on that