Honestly from what I understand about people I know in real life, as well as what I see online, woke equals defining the behavior.

So say your character is gay, has a gay lover, and whose story is rather inseparable from their sexuality. That’s fine in the eyes of most Facebook-propagandized anti-Wokers.

But if you say the word gay, if you verbally acknowledge sexuality, if you have your character come out, that’s woke.

For example, Blaire White. She may have backed herself into a corner of misery by only associating with conservatives, but look at how far she got by just not acknowledging gender. Almost everyone she’s around genders her properly.