• how_we_burned@lemmy.zip
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    3 hours ago

    think that they will be flattered by it. i’m not surprised

    In my experience all the gay guys I knew loved getting handsy with me.

    They thought they could make go gay presumably with their “incredible” technique.

    Didn’t work…but jeebus the amount of having to fend them off. Not to mention the never ending commentary about how I’d be better off gay.

    But I don’t consign every gay man to this behaviour in the same way I don’t consign hetros who rape women as if somehow all men are rapists.

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      2 hours ago

      Can confirm. I’ve had way more gay men try to be handsy or to try and convince me to fuck around than I’ve seen the other way around.