It is shitty though to misgender people just because you don’t respect them. I would actually count it as discriminatory since you normally wouldn’t misgender a cis person because you don’t respect them, which makes misgendering a trans person for such motives a unique form of hostility that cis people wouldn’t usually experience.
So just please have the common curtesy to gender people correctly, even if they are assholes.
It’s also shitty to be a bully. The golden rule works both ways. Fucking fucking apologists. Ya’ll act like someone should apologize or be punished for not calling Trump “Mister president”. Bunch of broken hypocrites. Lemmy was a mistake.
I’m not a transphobe you bunch of extremist ass plugs. You’re choosing to think that because I won’t respect bullies regardless of their fucking genders. Fuck yourself and fuck nigh half of lemmy. It was a mistake to think this was a place that treats everyone equally.
So you think we don’t treat everyone equally because… checks notes… we won’t give you a pass to not treat everyone equally because you think it’s justified in your head. Yeah, maybe engaging with people was a mistake for you.
That is daft coming from you who doesn’t want to treat people equally and finds it acceptable to misgender people at all. Not being a transphobe means that you will not engage in behavior that uniquely transpeople experience but cispeople don’t. If it was a cisperson, it wouldn’t even cross your mind to misgender them just because you don’t respect them, but you are willing to use the fact that someone is trans against them.
If you aren’t going to admit that you are wrong and that it is shitty behavior, then you wont be welcome anywhere else than troll or conservative instances.
It is shitty though to misgender people just because you don’t respect them. I would actually count it as discriminatory since you normally wouldn’t misgender a cis person because you don’t respect them, which makes misgendering a trans person for such motives a unique form of hostility that cis people wouldn’t usually experience.
So just please have the common curtesy to gender people correctly, even if they are assholes.
It’s also shitty to be a bully. The golden rule works both ways. Fucking fucking apologists. Ya’ll act like someone should apologize or be punished for not calling Trump “Mister president”. Bunch of broken hypocrites. Lemmy was a mistake.
If someone else being a bully is enough to make you transphobic, you might want to rethink your priorities in life
I’m not a transphobe you bunch of extremist ass plugs. You’re choosing to think that because I won’t respect bullies regardless of their fucking genders. Fuck yourself and fuck nigh half of lemmy. It was a mistake to think this was a place that treats everyone equally.
So you think we don’t treat everyone equally because… checks notes… we won’t give you a pass to not treat everyone equally because you think it’s justified in your head. Yeah, maybe engaging with people was a mistake for you.
That is daft coming from you who doesn’t want to treat people equally and finds it acceptable to misgender people at all. Not being a transphobe means that you will not engage in behavior that uniquely transpeople experience but cispeople don’t. If it was a cisperson, it wouldn’t even cross your mind to misgender them just because you don’t respect them, but you are willing to use the fact that someone is trans against them.
If you aren’t going to admit that you are wrong and that it is shitty behavior, then you wont be welcome anywhere else than troll or conservative instances.