• stickyprimer@lemmy.world
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    Among other things, you are there to ensure the heterosexuality of the event for them, so they can explore each other a little bit without fear of commiting. They sound like trad guys and trad guys are raised to think that sexual identity is all or nothing and that if they let in even a little bit of gay their entire identity will shatter. It’s sad that the culture does this to them - they do it to each other, really. Have patience. Let them go at their own pace. Exactly as you would with any partner, with any sexual experience.

    • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Meh, I think some people just like what they like. I see nothing attractive about making out with another guy, it’s a hard turn off. Masculine faces just dont do it for me. No problem with dicks though. So if I was in a threesome I’d have no problem with going down on both men and women, but making out would be a no