• RaphaelSchmitz@feddit.org
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    8 小时前

    You need less internet. Or less contact with people who have too much internet.

    The situations you’re describing, stuff like saying he’s not a real man, is what I see online, in YouTube videos videos etc. Those videos obviously have a selection bias, they pick the most egregious examples because that’s what gets clicks. I’ve never seen it in real life.

    And IF you see it in real life, well obviously their values don’t align with yours, so why would you even WANT to date them; look elsewhere.

    On top of that, also keep in mind that people who are “easy-going” (to summarize it as that), will leave the dating pool, while the difficult ones will stay there; you’re searching water in a swamp, kinda.

    • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
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      1 小时前

      Or less contact with people who have too much internet.

      So… no human contact, then? That tracks…

      On top of that, also keep in mind that people who are “easy-going” (to summarize it as that), will leave the dating pool, while the difficult ones will stay there; you’re searching water in a swamp, kinda.

      Oh good, so all I have to do is date someone who isn’t interested in dating? That makes so much sense.

      This is why I just don’t date anymore.