• Sheridan@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    I don’t think grey actually has another “opportunity”. This feels like a negging tactic to me.

      • aGlassDarkly@piefed.zip
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        8 hours ago

        If I understand it correctly, it’s the use of negative framing of another person’s physical attributes or demeanor, constructed in the hope the receiver of the “negging” has low enough self-esteem to agree with the assessment and will assume the asshole is a person of higher intrinsic worth.

        There might be more to it, but I usually just think of it as a form of reverse psychology + emotional abuse.

          • anomnom@sh.itjust.works
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            27 minutes ago

            I think demeaning or belittling are the old timey terms for the same behavior. Negging is just the term when it’s used as a strategy by incel/pickup culture assholes.