IDK I felt the same til I used girlie repairing conditioner for a bit and my short hair became insanely soft! I never went back. Regular shampoo and high grade unscented conditioner advertised for women is the way to go! Then get some moisturizing body wash to help with dry skin (I like the coco butter stuff).

Those all in ones suck in comparison. Plus I don’t need an underlying smell of cheap cologne on my body… I have good cologne to wear.