Here’s a little schematic to understand the layout. Help me figure out this mistery, not only to satisfy my curiosity but also to know if the cats in my street are in any danger.
Before reading and to avoid triggering any of you, my cat is fine and he was asking for belly rubs in the sun on my backyard just now.
So, I live in the house with the backyard with the B. My cat occasionally hangs around my neighbor’s backyard too. At curfew, if he’s outside, I come calling and he comes in.
Last night I called him in the backyard at B and he didn’t come but he was replying terrified. I know his meowing and this was “I can hear you, I’m scared, help me”. I couldn’t see him since only my backyard had any light. Every time I called he replied immediately in the same panic. That by itself wouldn’t scare me since he’s very anxious and easily startled. Once he entered the neighbor’s house and got locked in and he was yelling for me from inside the exact same way. But this time was different. The sound came from the outside the house, somewhere around the circle in A. And always from the same exact place. It really seemed he was stuck, he was definitely not budging.
I went around the house through the empty terrain (blue arrow) with a flashlight to see if I could see him and figure what was wrong. As I started moving through the low vegetation I heard and somewhat saw some movement in C in the direction of the arrow. I called my cat again and he was no longer replying. I looked inside my neighbor’s backyard and saw nothing.
I went back into the house. My mother was in the backyard (B) calling my neighbor. She said she saw nothing but heard a huge noise inside the house near the backdoor. The description of the noise sounded a lot like my cat running in panic. After a while looking for him inside and outside we eventually found him hiding behind furniture, peeking very cautiously. It took a while but he recovered. He has no injury or any kind mark of any struggle on his fur.
What I’m pretty sure happened:
- He was around A completely terrified of something and was not budging
- At the moment I entered the empty field whatever C was, it ran from me
- Also at that moment, my little demon flew through the fences and into my backdoor so quick my mother couldn’t even see him and made a huge noise running for his life (as he often does)
What I have no clue and want to find out:
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Most important, what the hell could C have been?
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Was my furry murderer frozen on fear or was something actually physically preventing him from leaving
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How long was he “stuck” there until I came calling him for curfew?
Some relevant information and, since I know some you are against leaving your cats going outside:
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My cats are indoor/outdoor, as most are here, and they can come and go as they please, though mine mostly stay inside and in my backyard. The cat in question explores just a bit more, but not much.
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At night, they have curfew and are inside only, and they know that routine
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It’s a calm street and the cars are slow. Also, for specific reasons my cats are terrified of cars and they even hide when they hear an engine.
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There are no known cat predators here. This is southwestern Europe in a 500k city suburb. There is a small woodland near here which I know very well and the most dangerous thing there is a hedgehog (I actually had one living in my backyard for a year). A fox is very unlikely since I never saw one here. But I have seen foxes in stranger places.


Cats should not be allowed to free roam for more than the reasons you tried to preempt. For one, everyone thinks their cat won’t get hit by a car right up until it does. “calm street and the cars are slow” works right up until it doesn’t. It only takes once. They’re also exposed to more diseases and parasites. The average outdoor cat lifespan is nearly 3x less than an indoor only cat.
But, furthermore, your entire preemptive defence is also just selfish. Outside/unleashed is a danger to the cats, but the cats are also a danger to the outside.
Please, please, please keep your cats inside, and if you want to let them out do so responsibly on a leash with supervision. This is directed at everyone reading, not just OP.
My cats are 8 and 9 years old. They never had close calls with cars or other animals. If I suddenly decided to lock them indoors for the rest of their lives they’d go insane. When I leave for days and they have stay locked inside they become depressed.
Is there a risk? Yes, but it’s a small price to pay for their mental well-being, not to mention physical activity.
I’m much happier letting them decide where they want to go during the day. And so are they. Keeping an animal in irons just because you want it “safe” is not protecting it is abusing it.
My neighbor from a few years ago let their cat roam our tiny street and he got FIV, and likely also spread it.
Further, not only is it a risk for your cat, it’s a risk to the environment. They are responsible for the extinction of multiple bird species.
You really think that your cat is exempt from the studies showing outdoor cats have much lower lifespans? It’s not, and it’s proven by this post. Whatever scared them was probably trying to harm them (probably a stray tomcat, like my neighbors’ FIV+ one. FIV is spread through all bodily fluids, even their saliva through bites that you may not be able to easily see under their fur).
I have three indoor only cats that live very healthy, happy, and danger-free lives. They have never been in the danger that yours was probably in.
I’m not having this discussion again. Everytime someone mentions a cat going outdoors enters the paranoid american. Look, I know you guys really like your prisons and locking something for the rest of their lives for “safety” comes natural, but for the rest of the world you’re pretty much just abusing your cat.
When I was kid I also took risks for going out. My parents didn’t lock me home for my “safety”. Some parents did and it fucked up their kids. If you love someone you can’t completely dominate them and control their autonomy just for your peace of mind. Living implies risks. You guys sound a lot like helicopter parents. Do you realize how insane and abusive you guys sound when you say “it has to be always inside because it’s not safe” or when you talk about catios and leashes. My cat would have a heart attack if he found itself outside stuck on a leash.
My cats are healthy, they’re very happy and I wouldn’t ever make them miserable to satisfy my need of control.
You realize cats are a fully domesticated species right? An indoor cat is not suffering because it isn’t allowed outside, it is in fact much safer and healthier for the cat. And you seem to have completely ignored what I consider to be the most important part, which is that outdoor cats are the TOP SOURCE of human caused wildlife mortality. I remember being young and seeing so many diverse bird species around where I am and hearing beautiful bird songs. Now there are like 3 or 4 bird species near me tops, and one of those is just crows. Gotta love how one of the few times Americans have an actual point on how you are negatively affecting the environment in a major way you brush it off as “you just wanna lock stuff up cause you love prisons so much!”
Why didn’t your neighbour vaccinate their cat?
How can you possibly know if they ever had close calls with cars or animals in 8 to 9 years of unsupervised, free roaming time outside? Also, isn’t this very post about your cat having a potential close call with something, and you not knowing what it could have been? How could you possibly make that assertion?
But besides that, I cannot emphasize enough, it only takes once.
Your comment again ignores the havok that cats also wreak on the ecosystem around you, particularly for birds.
Cats being happier outdoors is entirely unfounded. Cats live incredibly fulfilling and happy lives indoors when properly cared for and stimulated, and crucially, much longer lives on average. Asserting that it’s abuse to keep a cat indoors is absurd and no credible vet on earth would agree with that assertion. Furthermore, if you truly believe your cats will be happier exploring outside, then they can go for supervised walks on a leash.
Do you leash your kids too when they start going out. Do you guys in the US realize how ridiculous you sound? Leashing a cat, really? Do you realize how stressful that is for a cat? You guys are obsessed with locking living beings for the rest of their lives. To us it is just abuse.
Keeping cats indoors is not a US specific thing. I’m Dutch and keep mine indoors too. They’re not used to the street so letting them go out would be far too dangerous for them. We were also specifically instructed not to let them go outside when we adopted them.
They’re perfectly happy to stay inside, it’s absolutely not animal abuse. That’s just hyperbole on your part.
My sister rescued a cat who she initially let outside (because he’s used to it) but after seeing him have quite a few close calls with cars on a busier road she decided to keep him inside. He needed a day or two to adjust but appears perfectly content staying inside.
Letting cats go outside has an environmental impact, sure. It’s also not a death sentence to let them go out. Neither is keeping them in animal abuse, nor is leash training them.
Let’s turn down the heat a bit, shall we?
I don’t live in the USA and that is a very strange assumption to make in the context of this conversation.
If your cat is stressed by being leashed, it is absolutely something to work up towards and train for.
I strongly encourage you, and everyone else reading, you speak to a vet about the risks of outdoor living for a cat, and to read about the impact they have on the ecosystem around you.
Agreed with this. I love cats and want them to live long, safe, and happy lives inside.