• Imperious_melange@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    It’s cute, everyone wants to feel heard. Age is guaranteed, growing up is not. The world is a much more understandable place when you realize most people are like 9 years old but in a 30+ year old body.

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      The world is a much more understandable place when you realize most people are like 9 years old but in a 30+ year old body.

      Because we were all traumatised as children. Psychiatrists talk about this

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        Personally my goal is to decrease needless and avoidable suffering for all minds whenever and wherever possible. Not all suffering is needless, like exercise or surgery. Some forms of suffering allow us to come closer to wellbeing mentally and physically.

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        They also say you can’t not be traumatized. Trauma is how we learn to do and be better.

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          Tbh I don’t know about read because I~~ can’t read~~ don’t study psychology, but I heard it first from Daniel Meckler, an ex-psychiatrist. He explains it well and it comes up in every video, so in his eyes it’s the most important thing to grasp about human psychology for your own sake or for the sake of practicing it.

          You could scroll through his page and see what topic seems most interesting because you’re almost bound to hear it in one of them

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      11 hours ago

      I just want to get drunk and have fun in the bouncy castle 😭

      No, wait a second. Forget getting drunk, I might throw up in there. Just give me the bouncy castle!