Just one thing, many abusers are really good at hiding their bad parts and only showing them once a partner is more and more trapped. never being bad enough to leave, but always getting more and more power until the partner cannot easily leave.

That comment is a bit of victim blaming.

However this is not this case. he had nazi tattoos and was a mercenary, how can you go past the first two dates, or the first time sleeping with him without seeing those absolutely ginormous red flags without running away? Those aren’t red flags, those are foghorns, only possibility is that she is either severely mentally challenged, or a nazi herself.

I do not blame her for getting raped. no should get raped regardless how stupid they are, I am blaming her for dating a nazi. And even if she wasn’t raped, I would still blame her for dating a nazi.

I am not shaming her for being a woman, or a victim, I am shaming her for being a fucking nazi