• 5ha99y@lemmus.org
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    2 days ago

    Well, I am a reasonable guy (I think and hope. The global bias often makes me question myself twice) and have been on dating apps. They were all pretty silent for me. I think being not showing and interested, nothing will happen on there especially for a guy, because women are occupied by guys that are bothersome and one of them might seem fine. That is the reason why I left dating apps again. It’s nothing but a meat festival and the fight for who gets the meat… The strategy between men and women is just different. Men are the bothering ones and women need to choose (which is no different than on parties or even in primitive cultures actually but it’s all a statistics, so it doesn’t count for everybody). But I don’t want to bother other people, I dont even want to waste my energy for that. So I just moved away again, because I am an outlier.