• mig@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    Ok I’m laughing my ass off over here. You impregnated this woman multiple times but now you’re mad she won’t open the relationship?

    So you never did any of these things you say are foundational…before having multiple children together lol.

    Ok well, you’re cooked because the 1 circumstance where monogamy would be preferable for a sexually adventurous woman is…drumroll…postpartum trying to survive raising babies. She can probably hardly deal with your ass right now much less other men or your relationship dreams.

    Go take care of your kids. You will pass go again in , at most, 18 years or upon the breakup with your baby mama.

    • TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.works
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      6 hours ago

      They’re known as ‘unicorns’ for a reason. Where I live you aren’t exactly tripping over women that want to be a mistress or join a threesome. My single friends sometimes have ‘friends with benefits’, but they are other singles - they aren’t fucking around with couples or married guys.

      We met in our 30s and I wasn’t going to put our life on hold until the chance arose to test it. She genuinely seemed to want it - the constant, unprompted, dirty talk about me with other women when we were intimate really had me sold.

      I know I’m cooked now. I was just commenting on how much less cooked I would be, in the same exact situation, if I were gay.