You’re thinking too much. Instant responses are not weird. Am I supposed to just wait for a bit so that youre wheels don’t start turning in the most un charitable direction.
There’s a weird sort of etiquette with introverts. With some people I am replying instantly, but scheduling the send on a bit of delay so they don’t feel pressured to essentially start a real time chat. Is everyone too in their head in this exchange? Probably. Still think it works best for some.
Nobody owes anybody anything man do what you want. Its still weird though. Like when you knock a door and they answer it immediately because they were stood right there. You dont expect it.
I agree that would be weird. Difference is a person is holding their phone throughout the day. Its not a good comparison cause the behavior of standing by the front door waiting for it to knock is unusual behavior.
You’re thinking too much. Instant responses are not weird. Am I supposed to just wait for a bit so that youre wheels don’t start turning in the most un charitable direction.
There’s a weird sort of etiquette with introverts. With some people I am replying instantly, but scheduling the send on a bit of delay so they don’t feel pressured to essentially start a real time chat. Is everyone too in their head in this exchange? Probably. Still think it works best for some.
Hey if thats something you all came up with thats just being courteous / conscientious of your friends needs / preferences.
Nobody owes anybody anything man do what you want. Its still weird though. Like when you knock a door and they answer it immediately because they were stood right there. You dont expect it.
I agree that would be weird. Difference is a person is holding their phone throughout the day. Its not a good comparison cause the behavior of standing by the front door waiting for it to knock is unusual behavior.