• LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net
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    4 days ago

    I truly don’t get why people can’t still be spontaneous as adults. I still am but it feels like almost everyone I know is like this meme which makes it hard.

    But my one or two friends who are down to hang at the last minute, we have a great time.

    Right now I’m trying to convince all my friends they should just stop by my house randomly if they’re ever in the neighborhood but it’s become too taboo in our society.

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      4 days ago

      At least for me, it’s because I dont have much spare time, so what little there needs to be used as best it can. That means having plans. I’d love to be more spontaneous, but I just don’t have the time for it

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    4 days ago

    I’ll have you know I socialised in person today with someone who isn’t my wife.

    for the first time in two months, with the same friend I only invited over then to announce I might be forced to move cities.

    Meanwhile, there are pics of me at uni carrying a computer tower out of my friend’s house as if I am stealing it, because I randomly decided to come over and he told me he had a mystery abandoned computer in his living room and only a laptop.