You’re the one who brought it up. If you’re already fine with it, and I misread your several comments as your being conflicted about all that, forgive me. But “You can tell me these magical ‘supportive’ people exist, but to me they are entirely theoretical” really doesn’t sound like you’re okay with it.
All that said, just because people are family doesn’t mean they can’t be shitty shitty people. Just because you’ve known someone a long time doesn’t necessarily make them a friend.
anything anyone says means some random person has to come out of the wood work and turn into a historical battle of good vs evil.
you can’t say ‘i like cake’ here without someone appearing to lecture you how enjoying cake makes you a fascist who supports the gaza genocide and if you REALLY were anti-fascist like they are, you’d never enjoy cake again and destroy all previously memories of cake enjoyment
my family are just people man. they aren’t especially shitty people, they are just normal americans. they like football and hamburgers and the suburbs and vote republican. so basically… they are pure evil incarnate for the lemmy userbase. I am the weirdo to them, with my urban living and my small car and my democrat votes.
but some of us have lived our entire lives in a gray area of compromise, and see nothing wrong with that. it’s just how ordinary everyday life is… full of compromise, faults, mistakes, and laughing about it. not all of us are holy keyboard warriors.
You are not allowed to be modest and enjoy your life here. You have to always be striving for more and deeply unhappy with what you already have. It’s the national religion.
it’s not hyperbole dude. where in USA culture is being content with what you have celebrated or looking upon positive?
certainly not in our popular culture. maybe regionally sure, i have known mid-western people who were pretty content, but certainly not common attitude in most other parts of the country. maybe in more rural areas that’s true, i certainly grew up in a town with people who had no ambition and many of whom never left or never improved their lives.
hell USA is the origin of the prosperity gospel. we are so obsessed with material greed we mixed it up with our religion.
You’ve not met very many people then, and/or are heavily influenced by what you see online. Most people, yes even in the US, are not like what you’re describing.
You’re the one who brought it up. If you’re already fine with it, and I misread your several comments as your being conflicted about all that, forgive me. But “You can tell me these magical ‘supportive’ people exist, but to me they are entirely theoretical” really doesn’t sound like you’re okay with it.
All that said, just because people are family doesn’t mean they can’t be shitty shitty people. Just because you’ve known someone a long time doesn’t necessarily make them a friend.
Dude, it’s lemmy.
anything anyone says means some random person has to come out of the wood work and turn into a historical battle of good vs evil.
you can’t say ‘i like cake’ here without someone appearing to lecture you how enjoying cake makes you a fascist who supports the gaza genocide and if you REALLY were anti-fascist like they are, you’d never enjoy cake again and destroy all previously memories of cake enjoyment
my family are just people man. they aren’t especially shitty people, they are just normal americans. they like football and hamburgers and the suburbs and vote republican. so basically… they are pure evil incarnate for the lemmy userbase. I am the weirdo to them, with my urban living and my small car and my democrat votes.
but some of us have lived our entire lives in a gray area of compromise, and see nothing wrong with that. it’s just how ordinary everyday life is… full of compromise, faults, mistakes, and laughing about it. not all of us are holy keyboard warriors.
Who’s being hyperbolic again?
it’s not hyperbole dude. where in USA culture is being content with what you have celebrated or looking upon positive?
certainly not in our popular culture. maybe regionally sure, i have known mid-western people who were pretty content, but certainly not common attitude in most other parts of the country. maybe in more rural areas that’s true, i certainly grew up in a town with people who had no ambition and many of whom never left or never improved their lives.
hell USA is the origin of the prosperity gospel. we are so obsessed with material greed we mixed it up with our religion.
You’ve not met very many people then, and/or are heavily influenced by what you see online. Most people, yes even in the US, are not like what you’re describing.