“Don’t sit around for months/years putting someone you don’t actually interact with on a pedestal and dreaming of some fantasy future together when you can’t even gather the courage to ask them for drinks” is not some manosphere bullshit.
That’s like the standard for a healthy approach to dating.
The pining part is HOW people get drawn into the manosphere. They put all their eggs in one basket, strike out because they’ve made it weird, and then decide it’s all women that are the problem, not their terrible approach.
What the fuck are you talking about?
“Don’t sit around for months/years putting someone you don’t actually interact with on a pedestal and dreaming of some fantasy future together when you can’t even gather the courage to ask them for drinks” is not some manosphere bullshit.
That’s like the standard for a healthy approach to dating.
The pining part is HOW people get drawn into the manosphere. They put all their eggs in one basket, strike out because they’ve made it weird, and then decide it’s all women that are the problem, not their terrible approach.