• deft@lemmy.wtf
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      Hi I’m a man. The answer is no.

      The problems of men and being a man are unfortunately, caused by men. Education and empathy are the only solutions and require men to implement them on one another. Be a bro, be kind

      Feminism has nothing to do with the problems of men and more often than not feminism and understanding what feminism is will help the problems of men.

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        Feminism has nothing to do with the problems of men and more often than not feminism and understanding what feminism is will help the problems of men.

        Feminism is the fight for equality for all genders, including men! Thank you for pointing this out :)

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        My apologies, I didn’t realize it was you who posted. I never claimed that, despite how often you repeat it or take posts out of context.

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          I can link the full conversation again for context.

          Context:

          velma

          Fathers have a responsibility to not pass down their rapist tendencies to their children regardless of the weights of the world that we all have to deal with one way or another.

          minorkeys

          “Do it even if you can’t, or we’ll hurt you!” And we wonder why male spaces are becoming so aggressive…

          velma

          “or we’ll hurt you!” Where did you get this?

          Asking for jail time for rapists isn’t a wild idea.

          minorkeys

          From the harm your extremist views cause. Demanding ppl do things beyond their capabilities is harm.

          velma

          Demanding that men stop raping people is asking them for something beyond their capabilities? You have a dismal view of men.

          Edit:: I am allowed to recall previous conversations and I’m allowed to express my opinions on those conversations. I didn’t force you to type these comments to me. I will not quiet down in order for you to try to maintain your reputation by allowing these types of comments to be hidden in posts.

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            As we agreed, I’m not going to engage with you. Can I ask you to do the same, pls? I don’t want to keep having the same volatile exchanges with you.

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              I don’t think I’ve ever sought out your comments and I can agree to continue doing just that.

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                Comments on your post.

                “Please stop talking to me”

                Like there’s a delete button for your comment sir… Lmfao

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                That’s not quite was I asked you to agree to. I’m asking that we both make a clear effort not to engage with or respond to each other going forward, rather than simply not seeking each other out. I’m asking for the same boundary from both of us, and I’d appreciate a straightforward agreement to that.

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                    Understood. I’ve made my request clear, and I won’t engage with you further. If you choose to continue engaging with me despite that request, I will treat it as unwanted interaction and report it to the moderators rather than respond.

                    "Rule 6: Targetted Harassment

                    • Continued engagement after being asked to stop"