• Nine@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      1 hour ago

      No choking of any kind is safe. It’s all edge play.

      There’s a huge difference between a firm hold and chokehold. Giving someone a firm grasp is a safer way of doing that if you’re gonna do that at all. It’s not as dark romance book boyfriend hot, but it has the added benefit of not leading to accidents.