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- starwarsmemes@lemmy.world
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- lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world
- starwarsmemes@lemmy.world
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/54001364
Parent Meme
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/54001364
Parent Meme
Check the community name please
I did… I don’t find it funny and I explained why.
It’s ironic, because all people who found it funny, probably pay a lot of attention to their kids’ questions.
Absolutely. I have no problems with lots of questions and even encourage it. I also encourage that the child should take some time to learn and explore the problem themselves.
I am also a firm believer that a well formed question is sometimes more important than the answer they think they need. Teaching a child to ask the correct questions will fiter out 90% of the noise, I have found.
I also happen to be an engineer and am really good at lecturing on topics I enjoy. So, unless they want to be stuck for a couple of hours learning all the nuances of any particular subject, they need to come to me prepared.
Another method I have found effective is to point the child in the direction of the subject they are wanting to know about. So, if they ask me a question about one topic, I give them 10 research areas to explore first so they can start to understand my answers.
This all boils down to teaching a child how to teach themselves.
Similar vein of teaching/parenting, when I was growing up and would ask my dad what something meant, he’d respond “The dictionary’s over there”. It taught me to leverage the sources of information I had to hand before bothering someone else.
Hard to say… I’ve had entirely too many encounters with parents who unironically believe their kids should just shut the fuck up.
I think it’s okay to not find it funny.
I’ve also known good parents and bad, and probably all of them have days when they’re tired and just wishes to have 5 minutes of peace without the constant barrage of questions, many of which have been asked and answered a few times that day.
One of the formulas of a good joke is to take something mundane and turning it up to 11. Hence this post and us parents, good or bad, having a laugh at it; probably for different reasons.
Also I was told my mum felt like Yoda here, when 5 year old me started getting philosophical and asking existential questions…