Half of the people online are women (and they’re not all mature, sensible grandmas but also Karens and silly teens) and the West as a whole has an allergy to personal responsibility… add those two things and you understand why some female spaces are simply toxic and unfit for any deep, personal discussion that could end in disagreements. It’s really no crime (and women aren’t out there raping and murdering!) but you have to remember this so you’re not shocked/displeased.