I am calling bullshit here. This statement is true but the initial commentary is simply bullshit.

So just to be clear you police your friends doing that to men right? I get that shit a lot and they never seem to. Not ever (OK maybe a few but only the unattractive ones like being attractive gives someone an all access pass to being hyper sexual oggling asshats) Not at any public place basically where young women are.

Now im not a typically sexual person, I don’t stare (cause I don’t care about that shit) and I don’t like playing ‘The Game’. And yet. It is crazy persistent now like everywhere. Like you look too much for it to be polite at all. Then look away and talk with friends while side eyeing me. Im looking cause I trained myself to pay attention to the people paying attention to me. Im not smiling at them or ‘sending signals’ not anything just noticing people looking. And im not muting that (and turning my ‘saftey’ off) so they can do all the mating ritual bullshit with me cause they like my eyes or some shit.

Then they look extra. Then look away for a bit pretending they aren’t focused on that shit like some “im not that interested haha but you better not be ignoring me” bs. Then theyre looking fucking MORE and all under the pretense of “sending signals” just like the creep men that are (justifiably) getting flack for that same shit. (I understand the patriarchy and undertones of shit) and I don’t need to express rage or something else (not my job for one, nor is it my prerogative to exhaust my social battery or just having to experience shit emotions so they get there’s basic curtsey that they are ignoring, cause how tf are they gonna take it? Not the way they should I can promise that, and if you say something? They twist shit up to avoid embarrassment or strait up lie or apologize in a way that leaves me exhausted with the bullshit of it being needed to begin (benign or not). Just like asshole men have done forever and are now being condemned for in every media form i see but for some reason they get a pass even though they should know better then most) its something so pointless but to every fucking person that does it over and over and you get upset or irritated about it and they defend their pride by looking at you like you just became a sex offender or danger in their eyes cause “who doesnt want that kind of attention from me” looks/talkback cause you don’t like “The Game” is horseshit and it is the same shameless shit that toxic dudes tell themselves when they do it and is what this entire comic is based around and yet your defending the secondary sexual trait argument instead of seeking to see the nuances of what’s being said?

Fuck off with that shit. Youre barely even right here. Cause women can be just as cowardly and baselessly sexual “if you dont want me to stare don’t show it off” as anybody

In fact they are MORE so in many places now because of this kind of ritualistic excusing of/encouraging of the behavior by their peers without the checks of the anti-male-chauvinist movement (which as a whole I like)

Secondary characteristics. MY ASS is a secondary characteristic and yet your asses drool over it like you just accomplished something anywhere I fucking happen to be.

I don’t see you starring at them correctingly (and with a sense of kindred understanding of it being bad behavior) like we do with men doing that clearly unwanted bullshit, even tho they’re friends or coworkers or family or whatever. Cause I deserve it or smthg for old people being pervs in the past? Cause you dont want to see yourself in the same light as men? Fuck you for that thanks. Rant over. But the point stands.