I only want to use it for facebook marketplace, but jeez i didnt know they were taking it this far with this crap…

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    Same happen to me and I realized that where not my friends! The question someone asked me then, was how many of them would remember your birthday?
    Phone numbers + messaging apps is good way to stay connected.

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      To me, I dont care if my friends remember my birthday. I care if they are genuine friends and I have good conversations and laughs around them.

      Someone remembering your birthday is just them putting a reminder in the calendar. Doesnt mean much, not to me at least.

      So you have an actual human connection to these people? Friends could have a laugh over forgetting someones birthday, because its built on a real connection that doesnt go away over missing the small things.