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  • Lol yeah, I should have included that the emotional immaturity was such that they believed wanting revenge on a group for things they had nothing to do with or for reasons of jealousy/envy was normal. It was an attempt to continue your joke that the story creators were didn’t even have the logic to consider that angle.

    Or they were smart enough to make up horrifying stories that would stick with people and prevent them from doing dumb shit like going to play in a swamp and just saying “don’t play in swamps” will make some people even more likely to play in swamps to prove they can.


  • They come from a time before people realized that revenge was an endless cycle. Like the old testament was full of that, where good and evil were mostly framed in terms of “good people are us, evil people are our enemies, and it is good to cause suffering to the evil people. Also, sometimes circumstances make one of us evil, until we stone them or something”.



  • You might as well just put all those emails into a hat and pull out random ones. Or maybe categorize them first and pick from the hats your feature falls under.

    Try this: ask the AI how useful it is to ask an AI for “synthetic user feedback” and it will probably even tell you why this particular task is particularly stupid for an LLM. Ok, I tried it with Haiku, you might need to follow up with a question that mentions that experience and implementation specifics matter but aren’t going to be in the context window before it will give an in-depth explanation about why this approach is a waste of resources, though using an AI to help summarize the important problem areas users want addressed can work, it just won’t be able to tell you how you did.




  • My guess is small town. Accidents aren’t an everyday occurance, when one happens word gets around. Drivers or staff could be friends with first responders or even be first responders if they are volunteer firefighters (I know someone who ended up responding when their ex went in the ditch and got a DUI).

    Or maybe a driver drove past the wreck and recognized the car.



  • And AI is going to put that into overdrive.

    For a little while, I helped with some intern and recent grad interviews and holy shit some people didn’t have a clue. Had one guy on a remote interview that had a friend there helping him answer questions. It was obvious because he didn’t even mute his mic and we could hear them. And it was extra pathetic because his friend wasn’t even feeding him anything useful, like Bevis was helping Butthead with a software engineering interview.

    We had a short break and when we resumed, he had at least figured out to mute his mic between questions (not that that helped, as muting yourself frequently when you’re one of the main speakers in the meeting alone is a red flag without some reason that should be obvious when it isn’t muted). Only resumed because I was fairly new to interviewing, if I got one of those today (and still did interviews), I would have ended it early.




  • Hell, even borking my linux install was a relatively painless experience. I was updating from Fedora 43 to 44 and noticed at one point that my keyboard had power but nothing was displaying on my monitor. Capslock still responded so I wondered if the update had messed up the video display or something and restarted after seeing someone say that they saw the same and restarting seemed to actually kick off the update.

    Well, for me, it fucked the dnf5 install, which I tried fixing from the command line for a bit before deciding to just grab the 44 iso and install it fresh. I kept my home and game partitions and just reinstalled the root dir, then created two new accounts, renamed one of them to my old username and took over the old home dir, logged in and it was like the update had just worked. Only thing I need to do to get back to where I was is reinstall some packages or software. All the settings are stored in my home dir, so even the ones I don’t have yet will get their old settings back when I do get around to installing them. All I had to do was install steam and it launched like it normally does, all my installed games still there.

    And I’m pretty sure I could have even done this with a different distro and whatever was the same would have preserved settings, too.

    No cloud involved or even saving any files specifically. I did ask an LLM what I should preserve to make sure I wasn’t missing anything but everything it suggested waa already in home. It could have gone even quicker if I wasn’t overthinking it so much, but it was just like an hour or so before I was back up and running once I started the install process.


  • Yeah, I guess it depends on the context. I’ve just always interpreted it as being more about how great the other person is instead of saying anything about the other person. Like that luck could be lucky the timing worked out that you were both available when you started seeing each other. But I can see tones that make it all about the other person instead, deserved or not. So whether that line is a red flag or not does depend on context.



  • The first seems reasonable, until the reasoning is given, which reveals the whole message is batshit.

    Though IMO someone getting upset at being told they are lucky to be with the person they are with is kinda full of themselves and reading way too much into it. It’s more of a “I wish I was in your place without stating any intention to usurp it” than a “you don’t deserve to be in that place and must be there because things outside of your intent or control got you there”. It’s more non-threatening flattery towards your partner (as opposed to just flirting with her) than anything else and I’d consider taking offense at someone saying that to be a red flag even before he went off the deep end.

    It predicts the fragile ego stuff that follows rather than contrasts IMO.



  • It was intended more as a clarification than a disagreement, as I was focused on a different part of fascism when I read that and agree with your additions. It channels the anger away from the true causes towards scapegoats that have nothing to do with the problems, or that are tangentially related, or maybe the other side in some other (legitimate or not) conflict.


  • Here’s some characters you missed, but don’t worry, these ones are pretty subtle and only the most hardcore fans and linguists noticed:

    There’s a bunch of characters named Android <number>. You might think that they are all members of the Android family and just really like numbers so use those as names, but that’s not the case. They are all actually androids and their numbers indicate the order they were made.

    And the character Cell isn’t named after a prison theme like most viewers suspect, but he is named such because he was built using cells from many other characters.

    Also, Roshi means old teacher, but I’m sure everyone already knew that.


  • It’s a cycle that both sides contribute to. This system is shit, some people step up anyways, some avoid it, most people do some combination of the two, but the ones that choose 100% escapism burden those around them because someone still needs to finance their basic needs, which takes an emotional toll. And any excuse about how hard it is is even more frustrating because it’s not like it’s easy for the ones they complain about it to, yet they are doing it for themselves and the NEET, but they (often) don’t even want to keep trying for themselves.

    Or even if it is incompetence and they aren’t capable, a) it’s impossible to know if that’s even true or if it’s malicious compliance and b) still frustrating when a lot of it is still pretty basic, since there’s jobs at all levels where the main thing you need to do to succeed is just show up on time (or even just close for some of them).

    Not to mention that it’s often combined with an aggressively entitled attitude and/or lying about what they are doing in ways that can blow up in the face of whoever ends up being financially responsible for them.

    And ultimately, between someone who has earned the NEET label and their family supporting them, the only one that can really fix the situation is the NEET. All the therapy and support in the world won’t matter if they don’t want to improve, but if they decide to truly try to get their shit together and not just excuse their way out of even attempting or sticking with it the moment it gets hard, they can also make progress on their own.

    Not saying it’s easy, but that’s the whole point and the reason why families can get so frustrated with NEETs, as well as knowing that the rest of the world isn’t going to care about them like they do and if anything happens to the caregivers, the NEET could end up homeless or dead but they sit around like mommy or daddy will take care of them forever.