All good, no worries.

I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought “dude” or “guy” might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol.

https://youtu.be/iH3K2rkkU7g

I will cease calling you buddy. What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

Would? Buddy, I already have.

Spent from saturday til saturday almost entirely out of state for work trips. Was home from the first trip tuesday from noon-ish til about 3am then back on a plane early AF to go to the 2nd trip.

I got to see some cool sights but the travel was super draining and the actual work parts of the trip were super stressful. I saw a skirt I liked in the clearance section of walmart in one of the towns I stayed in and they even had it in my size, but I was like “nah, I’m not sure I’ll have room in my carryon”, so I passed it up. Then when I got to the next town I was going to be staying in I realized I could have just bought it and worn it for the flight home. So I went to a different walmart but they didn’t have that same skirt 😔. I did find a different skirt that I do like and am happy I bought but I still wish I would have just gone ahead and gotten the first one.

Valid

Context:

(Some) people on the ace spectrum like chastity because they like kink but not actual sex and having their bits locked up & off the table makes them feel safe & secure

(Some) trans people like chastity because bottom dysphoria