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  • I bet some early humans did trip balls and come up with new ideas and new ways to use rocks and sticks and abstraction.

    But the reality is, our brains expanded because there was no other competition for resources or territory anywhere that could match other tribes of humans. We had eons of bloodshed, of violence and barbarism that favored those who could outthink their opponents and predict what other humans would do.

    All of our mental strength comes from predictive capability. Our brains are not recording/calculating devices, they are simulators. All of our thoughts, all of our memories, are just simulations being run over and over and trying to connect with other associations and input. Understanding this is really important too, because when you realize this and really internalize it, you can break free from those countless millennia of survival instinct and calm your brain and not ruminate or dwell on problems, which is just your brain running simulations of your worst experiences and worst predicted outcomes over and over.

    Your brain runs simulations to explain how you feel. It doesn’t have to even make sense, it just takes a feeling or sensation you have like sadness or anxiety, and it starts attaching stories to it in order to survive. It does this automatically, but you can train it to stop, you can live in a moment and let the feeling pass through you. It can give you back hours, days or years of your life.


  • ameancow@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldCan anyone in IT confirm?
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    Every “rising” company has a few people like this, a few key players who know the field or have such niche expertise that they get given the largest leeway and most room to do whatever they want, as long as the results keep coming in.

    The catch here is that the more successful the company gets, the more power and flexibility they have to get the exact kind of employee they want. So if you dream of being in this position, be careful and don’t let it go to your head just because you were free to join the meeting 10 minutes late in your pajamas in the early days.



  • ameancow@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldIt's a Jeep thing
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    he found a patch of snow and parked his jeep on it, regardless of if it crossed multiple spaces. He believes that only his jeep can park safely on snow so that it’s somehow taking advantage of an unused space in the lot, when really normal cars can park on a couple inches of snow just fine.

    This is one of those strips where it serves the joke better to not look at the images, they’re not where the gag is. That said, it could have been drawn better to help more readers get the joke. The artist is saving time.


  • ameancow@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldWords of wisdon
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    I am not advocating for anything here but an awareness of how much of our society is an unnatural product of culture and social communication.

    Mental framing can make you hate the presence of something totally natural and normal. Where else can we see that effect at work? That’s the question I’m asking here, I don’t want this falling down some kind of weird slope where I’m arguing against fucking bathing.


  • ameancow@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldWords of wisdon
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    Absolutely, but there was a time in our species when we could make that differentiation. To have body odor is natural, we certainly didn’t have soap and didn’t always live near water sources, but what we consider body odor now would have been normal and not unpleasant at the time, meanwhile odors that are actually caused by illness would stand out.



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    For further evidence of this fact, it needs to be reiterated that components of perfume and cologne are some of the vilest shit you can imagine. Whale vomit, ass-juice of mammals, and so on.

    This is because our whole idea of “smell” is a really odd social construct, and the things we think we smell aren’t necessarily objective. A strong smell can mix with another smell and suddenly your brain forgets all social context around it. I could go on for hours how weird it is that we cover up so much of our natural smells when we spent the vast majority of our evolution using scent and body odor as a perfectly natural, normal tool for communicating with each other.

    But social influence is stronger than evolution. Some people take this knowledge selectively and ignore in other places, but it’s the heart of many of our broader social issues. This is why even though we spent the last million years or so piled in communal dens and caves, sweaty bodies in contact with each other night and day, we now gag when we pass someone who identifies as a Magic The Gathering player.


  • I’m sure quality can vary wildly, but the one I have right now seems to keep water hot for the whole house even when people are taking simultaneous showers. I also imagine there are some really efficient tank heaters out there too.

    I think at the end of the day, all we can really agree on is that synapsids were really weird looking animals but probably would be like any large land animal who bonds with anyone who adopts them at an early age and were likely affectionate and loving despite how terrifying they were.





  • Yeah also blocked 'em. There are some absolute knobs on this site. I swear on reddit my block list was over a hundred deep after 10 years. Here it went up to a hundred within a couple months.

    It’s the smaller-community vibe makes trolls and people with personality disorders feel like they get more response fucking with people. People on larger sites I think they are more hesitant to get scrutiny from larger numbers of people, which really betrays how insecure they are.