To be honest, you would get frequent notifications for updates that are probably more often than just to remind you. If you’re like me, you’ll just end up ignoring them anyway! There are a lot of small updates to a lot of software, most often not from a security point of view but just as people develop their projects. I update every week if I can but can be a couple of weeks, in which I start to feel “guilty” so when it builds up I know I have to do it
For personal stuff, i use an external email, and borgbase for backups (highly recommend them if using Borg or restic).