That’d be just lovely. I might be lucky that I’m more butch – some old men think that I’m just a young man who finally dresses right – and so boymode for me may not be as traumatic as it is for more femme people.
That’d be just lovely. I might be lucky that I’m more butch – some old men think that I’m just a young man who finally dresses right – and so boymode for me may not be as traumatic as it is for more femme people.


wow, ecofascism speed run right here. “Humans,” deserve it? Human entitlement? You sure there isn’t something more specific than that which doesn’t also construct humanity in a way where colonized people who have fought this the entire fucking time aren’t naturally deserving of suffering because of some innate, human behaviour that they must also have?
Yes, I’m sure it feels like “strawmaning” or unfair or whatever because you don’t mean to say that, but this is the narrative you just accepted. Think about who would benefit the most from that narrative, those colonized people, you, or the fucks who actually have power in this system and intend to commit even further genocide on colonized peoples to keep this all going? Which one of those three would most benefit from the assertion that this is a result of “human entitlement,” and not a specific system built to benefit a narrow group of people?
Had to boymode for an event with my partner’s family, which wasn’t a ton of fun. I don’t know about any of y’all, but I feel like we should get at least a week off every time we have to do something like that.
I’m going to save this and send it to a friend or family member who trusts me dearly, while they’re having a bad trip.