

You may want to ask to said person directly. Being interested toward one’s wellness sounds okay to me, I don’t know.
I am very early in my transition, though I’d rather be called she/her even talking about pre-transition time because it actually is behind me.
Hope it helped you even a little


You are already doing great, you know ? You really seem to be a kind person and I get a better picture of your situation (thank you).
Yes, defaulting to post-transition name and gender certainly is the right thing to do.
Hope more people were interested as you are. Bye ^^