but if she did, I must have done something awful to deserve it.
I had that happen once with a former friend, and she shut her mouth awfully quick when I responded “yeah, or maybe it was what I was wearing”. Granted, she’s a rape survivor, but it baffles me how she basically used the same dismissal she dealt with against me. At least it helped her realize how stupid she was being, but still, damn.
Yeah, that’s a good one. I’m usually not snappy enough to have a comeback when it happens.
But it is a good flag that I don’t want to interact with that person anymore, and they probably don’t want to interact with me anyway. I def have had a few relationships that ended over that type of response… and usually when you break up with them they start screaming and threatening you…
I had that happen once with a former friend, and she shut her mouth awfully quick when I responded “yeah, or maybe it was what I was wearing”. Granted, she’s a rape survivor, but it baffles me how she basically used the same dismissal she dealt with against me. At least it helped her realize how stupid she was being, but still, damn.
Yeah, that’s a good one. I’m usually not snappy enough to have a comeback when it happens.
But it is a good flag that I don’t want to interact with that person anymore, and they probably don’t want to interact with me anyway. I def have had a few relationships that ended over that type of response… and usually when you break up with them they start screaming and threatening you…