Hola,
I’m a native Spanish speaker from Spain (I live in the U.S., spoke English all my life with a native English speaking father and my English could be better than my Spanish). Since I am Spanish, we use vosotros. While I heard people in the U.S. learn “ustedes comen”, I would say “vosotros coméis”.
Well - I suppose I am officially archaic then :D I learned ‘usted’ as the very normal polite form of address in central spain from actual university teachers. In the 90s, admittedly ^^