• Velma@lemmy.today
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    The fault isn’t with desiring intimacy. Do you think women never desire intimacy? Do you think married women who have brought life into the world never want intimacy?

    Men also can’t expect their wives to be open and available for sex if there isn’t a certain level of respect. Not being involved with child rearing and the house is showing his wife that he doesn’t care to help. That he doesn’t care enough about HER to be willing to help. THAT is usually a key part in not feeling loved and in turn killing the intimacy.

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      Please reread the chain of comments. This is specifically about situations where there is respect, involvement with child rearing, and with household running/chores/etc.

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            “Physical intimacy is only sex nothing else, and men who want physical intimacy in an intimate relationship are the problem.”

            • You.
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              “Women are soulless creatures who only want men for money and are incapable of caring for others.” -You

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                This is hilarious watching you crash out ngl. I never said anything of the sort, meanwhile your response to “but what if the man actually does pull his weight and there’s still intimacy issues” was “boo hoo coins sex” bullshit. Sorry to inform you but not every man is your ex husband haha.