people dont’ want to have kids because the kids are considered detriment to their own personal pursuits and money for themselves.

where i live… people dont’ want kids because they want to travel and own nice things. and yet they will complain to you how unfulfilling and unhappy their lives are… and just chase the next nice thing or next travel destination that people have decided is trendy.

what kills me is people… want kids but they are under the delusion that it should come at no cost or change to lifestyle. that’s not how anything works. every change you make has opportunity costs.