• FireRetardant@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    I usually need to get to know someone before they are attractive. I describe it as me being greedy, i want the full package not just one that looks nice.

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      2 hours ago

      I don’t think that’s greedy, I think that’s pretty normal.

      I need to see how a person interacts in conversation to be attracted to them, as i am far more attracted to mannerisms and values than looks. A cute face is great, I couldn’t care much about body as long as a person is relatively healthy (this is a very broad range for me).