Oh I’m not trying to say it’s “bad” fundamentally in and of itself or anything like that. I was just trying to give a basic explanation of why a more avoidant person might bail in that situation. I’m not trying to imply that someone with a more avoidant attachment style can’t have a real or meaningful relationship, those were just the words I felt would make the most sense to the person I was explaining it to for a very basic bare bones explanation.
Oh I’m not trying to say it’s “bad” fundamentally in and of itself or anything like that. I was just trying to give a basic explanation of why a more avoidant person might bail in that situation. I’m not trying to imply that someone with a more avoidant attachment style can’t have a real or meaningful relationship, those were just the words I felt would make the most sense to the person I was explaining it to for a very basic bare bones explanation.