• 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.worldOP
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    15 hours ago

    She was dating a merc with nazi tattoos, I won’t shed tears for a nazi lover that found out nazis are bad.

    If you’re willing to date a nazi, you’re a nazi too.

    And it if utter bullshit that nazi killing brown people is a respectable career choice in America, but we draw the line at hurting a nazi woman.

    • megaman@discuss.tchncs.de
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      23
      ·
      14 hours ago

      “sexual violence against people i dont like” is not, in fact, a good position.

      I try to be against being a nazi merc and to be against rape.

      • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        7
        ·
        14 hours ago

        The problem is, most people here are only against rape, and are still making excuses for him being a nazi.

        It isn’t one or the other, I’m with you.

        but damn, so many nazi supporters.

      • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        14 hours ago

        it is, but I y’all decided rape is bad and didn’t give a fuck about nazi mercenaries killing brown people for money.

        Because you considered a white nazi woman to be worth more than brown people.

        and everyone is clutching pearls that I refuse to shed a tear that a nazi lover was hurt. but refuse to acknowledge that every single one of his supporters was a nazi supporter.

          • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.worldOP
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            2 hours ago

            are we in “you need to be more open minded and allow for a nazi merc”

            so, Nazis are only bad then conservatives have them?

            fucking nazi supporters, blue MAGA is as stupid and spineless as MAGA

      • brax@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        14 hours ago

        Rape is bad. Nazis are bad. I think the moral is: don’t date bad people if you don’t want bad outcones.

          • brax@sh.itjust.works
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            1 hour ago

            Nobody is saying that they do… What they are saying is that one does not simply fuck a Nazi and expect good results. Like what the fuck else is there to be expected? You date a Nazi, you’re it exactly going to have a great time unless you’re also a Nazi I guess, but even then I doubt women are much respected in those groups.

        • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.worldOP
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          13 hours ago

          Just one thing, many abusers are really good at hiding their bad parts and only showing them once a partner is more and more trapped. never being bad enough to leave, but always getting more and more power until the partner cannot easily leave.

          That comment is a bit of victim blaming.

          However this is not this case. he had nazi tattoos and was a mercenary, how can you go past the first two dates, or the first time sleeping with him without seeing those absolutely ginormous red flags without running away? Those aren’t red flags, those are foghorns, only possibility is that she is either severely mentally challenged, or a nazi herself.

          I do not blame her for getting raped. no should get raped regardless how stupid they are, I am blaming her for dating a nazi. And even if she wasn’t raped, I would still blame her for dating a nazi.

          I am not shaming her for being a woman, or a victim, I am shaming her for being a fucking nazi