While I’ve certainly been guilty of going on long shot dates, I feel like your process should filter out most people with that level of incompatibility.

I’m sure a lot of people picked up on my nerdery from my profile or initial messages and passed, and that’s probably the right choice.

Though I do remember one bad date, we were talking about rom-coms and I mentioned dragon age inquisition and how I liked some of the romance plots in kt. She said something like she “thinks I live too much in those games”. Disaster averted, and now I have a fun story.