• danciestlobster@lemmy.zip
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    10 hours ago

    That’s interesting. I would have said kink is more about the activity being done than the conversation and lead up to it. I mean the conversation is obviously important but I wouldn’t have thought part of the definition

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      5 hours ago

      Kink is stuff “out of the percieved norm”, so it has developed a culture of finding consent, that - sadly! - a lot of “normal people” don’t have.

      I want this always.

      (And I’ve probably confused the person following up to my comment with my attempt of sarcasm)