• AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        1 hour ago

        a) I was talking about the specific situation OP described, not any abusive/bad relationship ever

        b) If it was abusive that would likely have made it violent (psychological violence is violence)

        c) “Voluntary” as in they could choose to leave without threat to their safety/wellbeing, not “oh boy I wholeheartedly desire this.”