• rockerface🇺🇦@lemmy.cafe
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    14 hours ago

    My childhood trauma is opening up to my parents about anything and then it being used against me. So I think I’m good, thanks.

    • Souvenir@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 hours ago

      And in my experience, this can even be the case with good intentions, where someone talks about you being genuinely upset, frames it badly, and patriarchal bullshit results in you being taken less seriously as a man as a result.

    • DarkSirrush@piefed.ca
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      11 hours ago

      Hearing the mildly traumatic event you told your mom about increase in scale with every phonecall your mom makes that day