• Sarah Valentine@pawb.social
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    30 days ago

    Christ, the gymnastics you’re going through to exonerate her of any responsibility to act like a decent human being, to maybe avoid taking a massive shit on someone else’s feelings.

    Twisting this to make her out to be some kind of good person for this is outright disgusting. I hope, for the good of humanity, that you don’t date.

    • velma@sh.itjust.works
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      30 days ago

      I’m married, but thanks.

      No one is owed a relationship. Not even when they have trauma.

      She certainly could have handled it differently, but openly listening and being supportive is not something bad people do.