🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 2 months agoAnon doesn't have a plansh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square249fedilinkarrow-up1618
arrow-up1618imageAnon doesn't have a plansh.itjust.works🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 2 months agomessage-square249fedilink
minus-squareWoodYouLookAtThat@lemmy.todaylinkfedilinkarrow-up10·2 months agoMy parents made sure to give me a will to fly the coop by making sure I couldn’t fucking stand to be around them I almost think OP’s situation with 20 years of enablement is worse because it offers a persistent safety net, then rips it away
minus-squaregandalf_der_13te@feddit.orglinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 months ago My parents made sure to give me a will to fly the coop by making sure I couldn’t fucking stand to be around them yeah i get the impression too that some parents are intentionally abusive sothat their children leave the house as soon as possible nevermind the money that could be saved by multi-generational households.
minus-squareRamRabbit@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-22 months agoSomething tells me they have been trying to get him out for the last decade (or two), and he decided to sit on his ass till the consequences finally hit.
My parents made sure to give me a will to fly the coop by making sure I couldn’t fucking stand to be around them
I almost think OP’s situation with 20 years of enablement is worse because it offers a persistent safety net, then rips it away
yeah i get the impression too that some parents are intentionally abusive sothat their children leave the house as soon as possible
nevermind the money that could be saved by multi-generational households.
Something tells me they have been trying to get him out for the last decade (or two), and he decided to sit on his ass till the consequences finally hit.