Does anyone else struggle with trans discord servers? I’ve mostly given up on them because of how cliquey they get. I also feel like there’s a lot of tone policing that turns into dog piling. I feel more at home in nonqueer groups at this point which makes it hard to find places where I can fully express myself as an enby. The best experiences I’ve had are in art communities that happen to have queer people because everyone is pretty expressive.


I’m having some trouble joining the 196 space from 4d2.org, is it defederated or something?
i know we have people with 4d2 accounts in 196, could you try and dm me @erotador:catgirl.cloud and i can invite you directly to the space if you want.