Does anyone else struggle with trans discord servers? I’ve mostly given up on them because of how cliquey they get. I also feel like there’s a lot of tone policing that turns into dog piling. I feel more at home in nonqueer groups at this point which makes it hard to find places where I can fully express myself as an enby. The best experiences I’ve had are in art communities that happen to have queer people because everyone is pretty expressive.
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Discord is a terrible place, so it is not surprising to hear of other negative experiences.
You may have a better time on Stoat. Last time I checked it out(avoid the main server) the people were quite lovely. Wherever you end up, remember that you are valid and you are doing great!
try matrix, 196 has public chatrooms i help moderate, and you can apply for the genderverse rooms that ada and kaity (blahaj admins) run, both are full of cool queer peeps
genderverse applications: https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone
I’m having some trouble joining the 196 space from 4d2.org, is it defederated or something?
i know we have people with 4d2 accounts in 196, could you try and dm me @erotador:catgirl.cloud and i can invite you directly to the space if you want.
Thanks I’ll check it out. It’s probably a good idea to get away from Discord
