I think this also incentivizes not healing from your trauma in order to keep the identity…
My dad isn’t perfect, and he suffered horrible neglect as a kid which caused narcissistic tendencies and definitely left a mark on us kids, but I’d say I’m pretty over the “trauma” aspect of it. We have a good relationship now. However, I still want to be someone’s cute puppy girl uwu (/jk)
not everything needs to be a post-traumatic thing… one can like feeling safe despite not having had terrible parents or whatever.
I think this also incentivizes not healing from your trauma in order to keep the identity…
My dad isn’t perfect, and he suffered horrible neglect as a kid which caused narcissistic tendencies and definitely left a mark on us kids, but I’d say I’m pretty over the “trauma” aspect of it. We have a good relationship now. However, I still want to be someone’s cute puppy girl uwu (/jk)
I think that’s the category I fall in :3
it’s a wonderful category to be in <3
oh, edit: hiiii vivian <3 how do you doooo? ~
CATegory? I thought we were talking about Puppygirls
Mrrrrrp!~
mrrrrroooooowwwwwww