There is no hinting. I am directly accusing you of interpretive cherry picking, with the added politeness of suggesting that it may be unintentional. I will continue to be polite in this fashion, although I have growing doubts as to your sincerity.

And that’s all good and all feels very natural, and nobody should feel pressured to be anything else

Since you read that, what about it sounded judgy and prescriptivist?