• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      I know that’s why I dislike it. Swingers do nonmonogamy differently from me and thus they must be my primary enemy, even above the people who oppose all nonmonogamy

      • Pissmidget@lemmy.world
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        9 hours ago

        After I started thinking of all -phobic terms as “running away in fear, screaming”, much like my very reasonable and involuntary reaction to wasps, the term can at least trigger amusing thoughts.